Positive Dog Trainer and Cavalier Mom
Your Cavalier's Best Life Starts with Trust.
Hi, I’m Tonya Wilhelm. After working with Cavalier families for years, I started seeing patterns that most general training advice misses. This breed is sensitive, velcro natured, and full of heart, and they deserve an approach built around who they are. Cavalier Gifts and Blog is where I share the training tips, health guides, natural care articles, and gifts that come from living this life right alongside you.
Your Cavalier's next best friend might be just around the corner.
There's nothing like watching two Cavaliers greet each other. Cavalier Greetings is a friendly community map that helps you find the Cavalier families, playdates and dog-friendly spots near you.
- 🐾 Cavalier families nearby
- 🌳 Dog-friendly parks & cafés
- 🐶 Puppy playdates & walks
- 🩺 Heart, eye & neuro clinics
The Blog
Training tips, health guides, grooming tutorials, and natural care articles written for Cavalier King Charles Spaniel parents.
Cavalier Gifts Shop
Gifts made for people who love Cavalier King Charles Spaniels. From t shirts and mugs to home décor and accessories, most designs are drawn from real life Cavalier muses.
TeePublic
Over 200 Original Cavalier Designs.
Gifts made for people who love Cavalier King Charles Spaniels. From t shirts and mugs to home décor and accessories, most design are drawn from real life Cavalier muses.
Zazzle
Customizable Cavalier Products.
Gifts made for people who love Cavalier King Charles Spaniels. From t shirts and mugs to home décor and accessories, designs drawn from real life Cavalier muses.
Watch Free Training with Angel Dexter and Stewart.
Join us on Cavalier Tips and Fun for positive training demos, Cavalier health tips, and grooming tutorials made for this breed. New videos every Sunday.
Beyond the Blog
More support for Cavalier parents who want more than a quick tip.
Private Virtual Training
Personalized Skype or phone sessions to solve specific behavioral struggles like separation anxiety or barking. Get one on one guidance tailored to your dog.
The Support Group
Join our community of nearly 4,000 Cavalier parents. Share photos, ask questions, and learn together in a supportive space.
Patreon Community
Get early access to new content, behind the scenes moments with Stewart, and exclusive tips and resources you won't find anywhere else. Every tier helps support the work that keeps this community going.
— Royal Pups Training and Wellbeing
Looking for Step by Step Training?
My Manners, Life Skills and Foundation Training Course includes video lessons, printable resources, and personal support from me. You can even upload your training videos for feedback.
Built on Trust, Rooted in Experience
I’ve sat with so many Cavalier parents who felt overwhelmed, unsure, or like they were doing it wrong. You’re not alone in that. My career started in animal rescue, where I saw firsthand how dogs end up without families because no one knew how to help them. That led me through a service dog program and into over 21 years of teaching private lessons and group classes. I’ve worked with thousands of families, written books, and learned something new from every dog I’ve met.
Everything I share here comes from that experience, and it’s all rooted in positive reinforcement and a genuine love for this breed.

