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Cavalier King Charles Spaniel Grooming at Home: 10 Essential Tips for Stress-Free Brushing

September 17, 2025Grooming a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel at Home
Cavalier King Charles Spaniel grooming at home can be a gentle, bonding experience when it’s done with patience and care. I’m not a professional groomer, just a Cavalier mom and positive reinforcement dog trainer sharing what works for us. These tips are meant to help you keep your Cavalier happy, comfortable, and tangle-free, not walking down a show ring.
With my first Cavalier, Dexter, I chose to groom him at home long before we knew he had Chiari malformation. Short, relaxed sessions worked better for him than the stress of a full grooming appointment. As his condition progressed, avoiding neck pressure and overstimulation became even more important.
Now with Stewart, my one year old Cavalier King Charles Spaniel, we’ve continued that same calm, trust-building approach. His coat is still growing in, so we focus on making brushing part of our relaxed morning routine. At first, he was unsure about grooming tools, but with step-by-step guidance and rewards, he’s learned to enjoy it.

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Why Daily Brushing Is Essential for Cavalier King Charles Spaniel Grooming
Daily brushing is one of the best ways to keep your Cavalier King Charles Spaniel’s coat soft, healthy, and free of mats. Cavaliers have fine, silky hair that tangles easily, especially in spots like behind the ears, under the front legs, and around the bum. Even one skipped day can turn a small tangle into a full mat.
You don’t need to groom your entire Cavalier every day. I recommend starting with a few minutes focused on these key mat-prone areas:

Behind the ears – The soft feathering here tangles fast, especially if your Cavalier sleeps on that side.
Under the front legs (armpits) – Movement and friction make this a common spot for hidden mats.
Back of the legs and bum area – Long feathers can collect debris or twist into tight snags quickly.

Brushing these zones daily helps prevent painful mats before they start. It also makes full grooming sessions much easier, and more enjoyable, for both you and your Cavalier. If you’re wondering how to groom a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel in a way that’s realistic and stress-free, starting with small daily habits is the best place to begin.
Best Brushing Tools for Cavalier King Charles Spaniel When Grooming at Home
Choosing the right tools makes grooming a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel at home easier and more enjoyable, for both you and your Cavalier. You don’t need every grooming tool on the market. Most Cavalier families find that a few well-chosen brushes and combs are all it takes to keep the coat looking clean, soft, and tangle-free.
When I first started brushing Dexter, I asked my step-sister, who’s been a professional dog groomer for over 40 years. Her experience working with all coat types helped me understand what tools are actually helpful, and which ones to skip. Combined with my work as a positive dog trainer and Cavalier Mom, it gave me a solid foundation for building an at-home grooming routine that works.
Here are the brushing tools I currently use for my Cavalier King Charles Spaniels, and how I use each one in order during our grooming routine:

Soft Slicker Brush I always start with the slicker brush to gently lift out any tangles or snags, especially behind the ears, around the bum, and on the feathering. There are two types: slicker brushes with rubber-coated tips and those with exposed metal pins. If you’re confident in your touch and very gentle, the no-tip version tends to glide through more easily and reach deeper into the coat. But if you’re new to grooming your Cavalier at home or your Cavalier is sensitive, the rubber-tipped version adds a layer of safety while you build confidence.
Metal Comb After brushing, I use a metal comb to check my work. This helps catch any small mats I may have missed, especially in tricky spots like the ears, armpits, and around the feet. It also helps lift the coat so I can feel for any snaggles hidden underneath.
Soft Boar Bristle Brush I finish each session with this brush to smooth the coat and lay everything down neatly. It’s especially nice on the belly and groin area, where the skin is more delicate and the coat is still soft and puppy-like.
Pin Brush While I used to reach for this first, I now use it more for coat maintenance between full brushing sessions. It’s gentle and great for smoothing over the coat, but it doesn’t reach as deep or grab tangles like a slicker does.

Each of these tools plays a role in Cavalier grooming, but you don’t need to use them all every day. I’ll show you how I rotate through these and what I focus on most in daily coat care.
What About Dematting Rakes, Mat Breakers, and Shedding Blades?
There are a few grooming tools that often show up in pet stores or online, but they come with risks, especially for Cavalier King Charles Spaniels. I recently spoke with my step-sister about these tools, and here’s what she had to say. Combined with my own research, these are tools I personally do not recommend for at-home use on Cavaliers.

Dematting Rakes These might look gentle, but they’re not. The metal blades are sharp and can shred the healthy topcoat. They’re often marketed as “de-shedders,” but what they’re really doing is cutting and damaging good coat. A skilled groomer might use one in a very specific way, but for at-home grooming, they often do more harm than good.
🟠 Risk: Coat damage, fuzziness, and over-thinning
⚠️ My advice: Skip it. Regular brushing prevents mats more safely.
Mat Breakers / Dematting Combs These are the ones with knife-like curved blades that are meant to slice through mats. Even though they’re marketed for “easy mat removal,” they’re actually blades that cut through hair. They can be dangerous, both for the coat and for your dog’s skin.
🟠 Risk: Uneven coat, accidental cuts, painful if misused
⚠️ My advice: Never use these at home. If a mat is that bad, ask your groomer to safely remove it or trim it out gently yourself with blunt scissors. More on that later.
Shedding Blade These flat metal tools are meant for stripping or carding dead coat, mostly used on wire-coated breeds like terriers. While some show groomers may use this for Cavaliers to smooth the back, it’s a very specific, advanced technique that requires training. If done wrong, it can be painful and damage the coat.
🟠 Risk: Skin irritation, pain, long-term coat issues
⚠️ My advice: Not appropriate for pet Cavaliers. Leave this one to the show pros.

How to Groom a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel at Home: Step-by-Step Brushing Guide
Learning how to groom a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel at home starts with brushing, and a few small steps each day really do make a difference. I’ve found that gentle handling, the right tools, and a routine your Cavalier can count on go a long way in keeping the coat healthy and mat-free.
Here’s the step-by-step process I use with Stewart during our daily brushing routine:
I start with Stewart’s chest, then move to the ears, back, sides, tail and legs. I gently place him in my lap, and he flips over and I do his chest again. Switching to the metal comb I gently brush his leg feathers again, chest, belly and feathers around his groin I finish with the soft boar bristle brush on his belly and back and chest.

Follow Dexter’s step by step Cavalier King Charles Spaniel grooming routine at home. See the brushing order, tools, and gentle handling I use.
How to Keep Your Cavalier King Charles Spaniel’s Bum Clean and Mat-Free
When it comes to Cavalier King Charles Spaniel grooming at home, don’t forget about the bum area. The long feathering back there can easily collect debris or twist into little mats, especially after potty breaks or wet walks.
This is one area I check every single day. I use the slicker brush or pin brush to make sure nothing’s tangled or stuck. And my rule? If he regularly poops on it, it goes away. I’m not going to fight with a poopy mat. I just trim the spot with blunt scissors and move on.
Some Cavalier families prefer to keep this area trimmed short, especially if their Cavalier tends to get messy. You don’t have to go that route, but keeping the feathering brushed out and clean makes life easier, for both of you.
A quick wipe at the door after bathroom breaks is also a great habit. I usually keep soft wet wipes by the door for a fast once-over, and it really helps keep things fresh between full bathes.
How to Groom a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel’s Feet and Slippers
One of the most iconic Cavalier King Charles Spaniel grooming styles is their fluffy, feathered feet, often called “slippers.” As cute as they are, that long hair can easily trap dirt, burrs, and tiny tangles, especially after outdoor time.
I brush each foot slowly and gently, using a metal comb or pin brush, depending on how much feathering there is. I make sure to check between the toes and around the paw pads, since those hidden spots can mat quickly if they’re not brushed out. I always hold the paw gently so I can see what I’m doing and avoid pulling on the skin.
Some Cavalier families like to trim the tops of the slippers to keep things neater and reduce dirt tracking, especially during muddy seasons. That’s a personal choice and totally fine if it helps.
What is important for all Cavaliers is trimming the hair underneath the paw pads. When that hair gets too long, it can cause slipping on floors, trap debris, and hold moisture, leading to irritation or discomfort. Keeping the pads clear and tidy makes walking easier and safer for your dog, while still letting them keep their signature slipper look on top.

Learn how to trim the underside of your Cavalier King Charles Spaniel’s feathers at home to keep grooming simple and stress-free.
Cavalier King Charles Spaniel Ear Grooming: What Matters Most
When it comes to grooming a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel’s ears, brushing, not cleaning, is usually what matters most. If your Cavalier is eating a fresh, balanced diet and doesn’t have underlying allergies, their ears often stay clean on their own.
I don’t recommend routine ear cleaning unless your veterinarian suggests it. Over-cleaning can actually cause irritation in some dogs.
What I do recommend is brushing the feathering around and behind the ears every single day. This is one of the most common places mats start to form. A quick pass with a slicker brush or metal comb helps prevent tangles from tightening up and keeps those beautiful ears looking and feeling their best.
How to Remove Snaggles or Mats in Your Cavalier’s Coat
Even with daily brushing, snaggles can still sneak in, especially behind the ears, under the arms, or on the bum feathering. If you find one, the most important thing is to be gentle and patient. You want to avoid pulling on your Cavalier’s skin or damaging the coat.
Start by holding the mat at the base, between your fingers and your Cavalier’s skin. This gives you control and keeps the tug off your dog. Then use a slicker brush or metal comb to gently work from the outside of the mat inward in tiny strokes. Go slow and stop if your Cavalier seems uncomfortable.
If the snag is small but stubborn, rub a small amount of 4-Legger’s Restore organic apple cider vinegar conditioning rinse. This can help the brush glide through more easily.
If the mat is tight, matted to the skin, or clearly painful to your Cavalier, don’t try to work it out with brushes. In that case, it’s much kinder to snip it out carefully with rounded grooming scissors or ask a professional groomer to help. A small missing patch is better than a painful grooming session.
The best mat prevention really is daily brushing, even just a few minutes focused on the trouble spots can make a big difference.
Building a Cavalier Grooming Routine That Works for You
Cavalier King Charles Spaniel grooming at home doesn’t have to be all-or-nothing. You don’t need to brush your Cavalier from head to tail every single day. Some days, you might only focus on the high-risk mat zones: behind the ears, armpits, feet, and bum. Just a few minutes of brushing in those areas can prevent painful tangles and save you time in the long run.
Right now, I brush Stewart each morning in the bathroom. He’s still young, and his puppy coat doesn’t take long. As he matures and his adult coat grows in, we’ll likely move to the bedroom or sofa—somewhere cozier for longer sessions.
With Dexter, it was a little different. Because of his Chiari malformation, I groomed him in short stages. It was more comfortable for him, and it helped us both stay calm. Even a little brushing here and there made a big difference.
The key is consistency. Find a brushing rhythm that works for you and your Cavalier King Charles Spaniel. Keep it kind, keep it simple, and it will soon feel like just another part of your life together.
Grooming your Cavalier King Charles Spaniel does not have to be complicated. With the right tools, a little daily brushing, and a calm approach, you can keep that beautiful coat tangle-free and make grooming something your dog actually enjoys.
The most important thing is finding a rhythm that works for your Cavalier and your lifestyle. A consistent, relaxing approach builds trust and turns grooming into bonding time, not a chore. With the right tools and a routine that fits, grooming your Cavalier King Charles Spaniel can be a gentle, positive part of your daily life.

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Tonya WilhelmHi, I’m Tonya Wilhelm—a positive dog trainer, holistic pet care educator, and proud Cavalier King Charles Spaniel mom. With nearly 30 years of experience helping families raise confident, well-mannered dogs, I focus on trust-based training, enrichment, and natural wellness. I’m also a published author and content creator who shares proactive, effective ways to support your Cavalier’s behavior, health, and daily life. You’ll often hear about Stewart, my sweet Cavalier, and my angel Dexter, who continue to inspire everything I create.
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Cavalier King Charles Spaniel Pros and Cons: 11 Things to Know Before You Buy

September 3, 2025Cavalier King Charles Dog Breed Information
Are you thinking about bringing a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel into your family? In this article I’ll walk you through Cavalier King Charles Spaniel pros and cons, including their temperament, size, family life, health issues, lifespan, price, and what to expect whether you choose a Cavalier puppy or adopt a Cavalier rescue, so you can decide if this beloved companion is the right fit for your lifestyle.
This gentle, affectionate dog breed has captured the hearts of so many Cavalier parents, mine included. I’m lucky to have been a Cavalier Mom to two Cavaliers. First was Angel Dexter, who came from a responsible breeder. Now I share my life with Stewart, my sweet Cavalier rescue. Each taught me something different about living and caring for a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel. Let’s look at the Cavalier King Charles Spaniel pros and cons so you can decide if this beloved companion is the right fit for your lifestyle.

What is the Cavalier King Charles Spaniel Temperament Like
When people ask about Cavalier King Charles Spaniel temperament, I always start with their affectionate nature. Cavaliers are true companion dogs, often referred to as love sponges. They want to be with you on the couch, in bed, or following you from room to room. That closeness is endearing. At the same time, we have to remember they are spaniels. That means they’re naturally curious, athletic, and alert. I often say they’re part lap dog and part little sporting dog. If you enjoy an easygoing cuddle buddy who also loves to trot beside you on walks or join in a game of fetch, a Cavalier may be a perfect match.
It’s also important to know that Cavaliers who suffer from Chiari malformation and syringomyelia may experience pain that can affect their temperament. A normally gentle dog may become sensitive to touch, startle more easily, or avoid certain interactions because they are uncomfortable. These changes are not personality flaws, they are signs of discomfort. I’ll share more on this health issue later in the article, but it’s something every potential Cavalier parent should be aware of when considering the breed.
Are Cavaliers Good with Kids
Cavaliers are often wonderful with children, which is one of the reasons families are drawn to Cavalier King Charles Spaniels. But Cavaliers are still dogs, and children are still children. No matter the breed, all families benefit from raising kids and dogs with skills that build safety and trust. Start by learning dog body language yourself, then teach children how to recognize when a Cavalier is relaxed and when they need space. Practice active supervision, be present and engaged any time kids and your Cavalier share a space. Encourage gentle petting, calm voices, and respect around food and toys. At the same time, help your Cavalier learn polite manners around children with simple cues like sit, leave it, and drop it. When you can’t be hands-on, use management tools such as baby gates, crates, or closed doors to keep everyone safe. With this combination of teaching, supervision, and management, children and Cavaliers can enjoy a safe, positive relationship built on mutual respect.

How Big is a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel
Cavalier King Charles Spaniel size makes them appealing for many households. Most Cavaliers weigh between 13 and 18 pounds and stand about 12 to 13 inches tall, but not all Cavaliers fit neatly into the charts. My Angel Dexter was almost 30 pounds, and that was his ideal, lean body. Stewart, my Cavalier rescue, weighs in at 18 pounds. What matters most is keeping your Cavalier at a healthy weight. Do not allow your Cavalier to get fat, as excess weight can stress their heart and joints. To evaluate your Cavalier’s body condition, place your fingers lightly along their ribcage, you should feel each rib without pressing too hard. Then slide your hands back toward the waist and abdomen. You should notice a narrowing behind the ribs and a slight upward tuck in front of the hind legs. This hands-on check is the best way to evaluate body condition in a Cavalier. Their size makes them easy to travel with, but it also means they can be vulnerable to accidental injury if handled roughly, so again, supervision matters.
Can Cavaliers Do Dog Sports
Even though Cavaliers love to nap, they are surprisingly talented in dog sports. Training a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel can be a joy because they’re eager to please and thrive on positive reinforcement. Many Cavaliers shine in agility, rally, obedience, scent work, and therapy dog programs. Their willingness to work with you and their food motivation make them quick learners when training is fun and rewarding. Adding activities like nose work or agility not only gives them an outlet for energy but also strengthens the bond between you and your dog.

Are Cavalier King Charles Spaniels Healthy
Now for one of the most difficult parts of the Cavalier King Charles Spaniel pros and cons list: health. Sadly, this breed faces serious inherited conditions. The most well-known is mitral valve disease (MVD), which affects the heart. MVD is a progressive condition where the heart’s mitral valve weakens and begins to leak. Over time, this can lead to congestive heart failure. Because MVD is so common in Cavaliers, it’s important to work with a veterinarian who understands the breed and to schedule regular heart checks with a canine cardiologist. Learn more about MVD in Cavaliers in this blog post.
Chiari malformation is another serious concern, and it is the disease that creates syringomyelia (SM). This painful neurological disorder occurs when the skull is too small, forcing brain tissue into the spinal canal and leading to fluid-filled cavities within the spinal cord. Dogs with Chiari malformation and SM may yelp unexpectedly, scratch at their neck or shoulder, resist touch, or show sudden changes in temperament because of the pain. Managing this condition requires veterinary guidance and, in some cases, medication or surgery. This is the condition my Angel Dexter lived with, yet with careful management and support he reached a full and happy 15 years. Learn more about Chiari malformation and syringomyelia in Cavaliers in this article.
Another condition Cavaliers face is middle ear disease, also known as primary secretory otitis media (PSOM). This condition causes a thick mucus plug to form behind the eardrum, which can lead to discomfort, balance issues, head shaking, and even changes in behavior if left untreated. Treatment may involve veterinary procedures to clear the ear canal and ongoing management.
Cavaliers are also prone to a condition called Medium Chain Acyl-CoA Dehydrogenase Deficiency (MCADD). This is a metabolic disorder that affects how the body breaks down certain fats to use for energy. In dogs, MCADD can lead to weakness, low blood sugar, and other serious complications if not carefully managed. DNA test, regular monitoring, and appropriate dietary management are essential for supporting a Cavalier with this condition. Learn more about MCADD in Cavaliers in this blog post.
Because these serious conditions are so prevalent in Cavaliers, it’s crucial to choose a responsible Cavalier King Charles Spaniel breeder who screens for heart and neurological health. Health testing doesn’t guarantee your Cavalier will be free of problems, but it greatly reduces the risks. Rescue Cavaliers can also be wonderful companions, bringing joy, love, and a deep sense of gratitude into a home. Many thrive in their new families and blossom when given patience and care, even if they come with medical needs. To learn more about finding a responsible Cavalier King Charles Spaniel breeder, check out this article.
Cavalier King Charles Spaniel Lifespan
The average Cavalier King Charles Spaniel lifespan is around 9 to 14 years, depending on genetics and health. With good care, some live longer, but unfortunately, heart disease can shorten lives. Keeping your Cavalier at a healthy weight, feeding a fresh and balanced diet, and scheduling regular veterinary visits all play a role in helping them live their best life. Natural care, canine enrichment, and lifestyle also matter. Offer daily outdoor walks where they can sniff and explore, encourage play and problem-solving games, and create opportunities for gentle adventures. These simple habits help support a longer, healthier Cavalier King Charles Spaniel lifespan.
Cavalier King Charles Spaniel Price
“How much are Cavalier King Charles Spaniel puppies?” is a common question. The Cavalier King Charles Spaniel price varies depending on where you live and whether you’re adopting from a responsible breeder or a Cavalier rescue. Responsible breeders who do full health testing often charge $2,000 to $4,000 or more. Rescue adoption fees are much lower, but are dependent on the care the Cavalier has received during their rescue. Remember, the initial price of a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel is just the beginning. Budget for grooming, high-quality food, training, and veterinary expenses throughout your Cavalier’s life.
Are Cavalier King Charles Spaniels Hypoallergenic
No, Cavaliers are not hypoallergenic. They shed moderately and have silky coats that need regular brushing to prevent mats. If allergies are a concern, it’s best to spend time around Cavaliers before making the commitment. Regular grooming, vacuuming, and bathing can help reduce allergens, but there is no such thing as a completely hypoallergenic Cavalier King Charles Spaniel.
King Charles Spaniel vs Cavalier King Charles Spaniel
Many people confuse the Cavalier King Charles Spaniel with the King Charles Spaniel, but they are two separate breeds. The Cavalier King Charles Spaniel is the larger of the two, usually standing 12 to 13 inches tall, while the King Charles Spaniel is smaller and more compact. The Cavalier King Charles Spaniel is often simply referred to as a Cavalier, which is the term most families use when talking about this breed. Cavaliers have a longer muzzle and a more athletic build, reflecting their history as both lap dogs and sporting spaniels. The King Charles Spaniel, sometimes called the English Toy Spaniel, has a shorter nose and domed head, giving them a more toy-like appearance.
Temperament is another difference. Cavalier King Charles Spaniels are known for being outgoing, affectionate, and versatile. They are just as happy cuddling on the sofa as they are joining in a walk or dog sport. King Charles Spaniels tend to be quieter and a bit more reserved, often content with shorter bursts of activity. Both breeds are loving companions, but Cavalier King Charles Spaniels usually need a bit more daily exercise and interaction.
If you’re deciding between the two, consider your lifestyle. Families who want a playful, adaptable dog often lean toward the Cavalier, while those looking for a smaller, calmer companion may prefer the King Charles Spaniel. Either way, both breeds thrive on love and gentle care, so the best choice depends on which temperament and size best fit your home.
Are Cavalier King Charles Spaniels Good for First Time Owners
Many people wonder, are Cavalier King Charles Spaniels good for first time owners? The answer is often yes. Their temperament makes them more forgiving than some breeds, and they’re generally eager to please. However, they do require consistent positive training, companionship, and health care. A Cavalier isn’t a low-maintenance dog, but for a first-time dog parent who is committed to positive reinforcement training, daily walks, and plenty of love, they can be a wonderful choice.
How do I Choose Between a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel Puppy Breeder or a Cavalier Rescue?
Cavalier King Charles Spaniel puppies are undeniably adorable, but they also require a lot of time, training, and patience. Potty training, socialization, and chewing are all part of the puppy stage, and when you go through a responsible Cavalier breeder you usually receive guidance, health testing information, and lifelong support. My Angel Dexter came from a responsible Cavalier King Charles Spaniel breeder, and that start gave us a good foundation because he had good genetics, strong early puppy socialization, and was raised in a loving home.
Rescue Cavaliers can also be puppies or adults. In fact, my Stewart came from Cavalier Rescue USA when he was only four months old. Cavalier rescues often provide wonderful Cavaliers who simply need a second chance. Some may already be house-trained and past the chewing stage, while others might need extra patience and care. Dexter was special in his own way and will always be remembered as a deeply loved member of my family, while Stewart is still here with me today and continues to be a cherished part of our family.
Cavalier King Charles Spaniel Pros and Cons Conclusion
The biggest pro of the Cavalier King Charles Spaniel is their affectionate, gentle nature. They are adaptable dogs who thrive in many settings, whether you live in an apartment or a house with a yard. They’re wonderful companions for children, seniors, and active adults who want a partner for walks or dog sports. They usually get along well with other pets, and their size makes them travel-friendly. On the con side, Cavaliers struggle with significant health problems that can shorten their lifespan and create expensive veterinary care. They also need daily companionship and don’t do well if left alone for long hours. Their coat requires regular brushing and grooming, and they can gain weight easily without exercise. Understanding both sides of the Cavalier King Charles Spaniel pros and cons will help you make the right choice for your family.
Life with a Cavalier is filled with love, snuggles, and companionship, but it also comes with responsibilities. If you’re drawn to this breed, take time to learn about their health, consider the cost of care, and connect with responsible Cavalier breeders or Cavalier rescues. With the right preparation, you’ll be rewarded with a loyal, affectionate companion who will fill your days with joy.
If you’d like gentle, step-by-step help with training, I’d love for you to check out my Manners, Life Skills and Foundation Training Course. This positive reinforcement program is designed to help you and your Cavalier build trust and real-life skills together. The lessons are self-paced, with video demonstrations, clear action plans, and playful enrichment games to make learning fun. I’m there to support you and your Cavalier every step of the way, and you can even upload videos for feedback so you never feel alone in the process. My goal is to give you the tools and encouragement you need to raise a confident, well-mannered Cavalier while enjoying the journey as a team.

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Grieving the Loss of a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel After Euthanasia

July 8, 2025Mourning a Pet

Grieving the loss of a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel after Euthanasia
Grieving the loss of a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel after euthanasia is one of the hardest things a pet parent can go through. If you’ve found yourself here, you might be feeling lost, raw, or unsure of how to move forward. I’ve been there too. I lost my heart dog, Dexter, after 15 years together. This isn’t just a guide. It’s part story, part support, and fully from the heart.
Losing a Pet After 15 Years: My Story With Dexter
Dexter came into my life in 2009 and quickly became my BFF. He filled a huge void in my heart and taught me what it meant to truly bond with a dog. He wasn’t just my dog. He was my teacher, my therapy dog partner, my travel buddy, and my constant companion. Dexter and I did everything together.

He didn’t just go to training classes. I taught the classes, and Grammy took him each week so he could be part of it all. In his early years, he went to 3, sometimes 5 classes a week. He absolutely loved learning and being involved in everything.
We took family vacations. We had so much mommy and me time. Every year, I’d sing him Happy Birthday and say “20 more.” Of course, I knew that wasn’t realistic. But we made the most of every day. Dexter became a role model for pet parents locally and online. I wrote about his Chiari malformation and mitral valve disease, and we shared his therapy dog visits, our books, and even his time as a demo dog at pet expos.

Losing a Pet Suddenly: When Things Happen Fast
Dexter had been struggling with mobility, which wasn’t anything new. He had been in rehab for most of his life to manage his Chiari malformation. It wasn’t something that changed overnight. He had been declining, slowly but steadily. But that evening, as we sat in the living room with the family, I looked down at him and I just knew. His quality of life was no longer the same.
Even though I had planned on doing in-home euthanasia and had spoken with Dr. Monica Turenne, we didn’t end up going that route. It was a weekend evening. Things moved fast. We made the decision together and took him to the emergency clinic. I needed to make sure he wasn’t suffering.
We sat in the car for almost an hour waiting to be seen. Dexter just laid there calmly. When we finally went inside to the exam room, that’s when I really noticed the difference. He wasn’t poking around or trying to snoop like he normally would. He just stayed still, laying on the exam table. I kept talking to him the whole time, letting him know I was there and that I loved him. I told them what we needed to do. It was incredibly hard, but I knew it was the right thing for him. It was peaceful, and I was by his side.
Preparing a Pet Memorial Ahead of Time
One thing that helped me a lot was having a memorial space ready. About a year before Dexter passed, and with the help of my family, we created a spot in our garden just for him. My family goes out of town often, and I knew that if he passed when I was home alone, I needed something already prepared.
We dug a hole, filled it with soft dirt in a sealed bag, and placed a large, beautiful faux stone on top. I decorated it with flowers and trinkets that reminded me of him. It wasn’t about being morbid. It was about being prepared and honoring his life before it ended. That space gave me comfort before and after his passing.
Today, I still visit that space. It’s right outside my bedroom window. Tomato plants grow there. That was his favorite treat. There are flowers, solar lights, and a wind chime with moons and stars—a little tribute to the phrase I always said to him, “I love you to the moon and back.” I added little frog statues too, because Dexter absolutely loved chasing frogs. These touches keep me connected to him every single day.
I also created a few Cavalier King Charles Spaniel memorial items in Dexter’s honor that are now part of my Cavalier Gifts shop. These pieces mean a lot to me and I hope they bring peace to other Cavalier families too.
Grieving the Loss of a Pet After Euthanasia
Grief after pet loss looks different for everyone. Some people cry daily. Some feel numb. Some feel guilt over the timing or wonder if they made the right call. When you lose a dog after 15 years, it can feel like a part of your identity is gone.
The pain of losing a Cavalier, especially after euthanasia, can show up in so many different ways. You might grieve your routine, the moments you always shared together, or even the decisions you had to make. And if it happened quickly or unexpectedly, that can make it even harder to process. When your days have been filled with their presence for so long, their absence is felt everywhere.
You might feel guilt about the choice to euthanize. That thought of, “Did I wait too long or not long enough?” can creep in. You might regret not doing more, or replay your final moments over and over in your mind. Many pet parents experience sadness or even depression. The house might feel too quiet. You might not want to do the things you used to enjoy. You could also feel isolated, especially if those around you don’t fully understand what you’ve lost. All of this is normal. Your grief is real and valid.
Ways to Cope With Pet Loss and Grief
There’s no timeline or rulebook for grieving. But here are a few things that can help and may offer you some gentle support.
Talk to your dog. I still talk to Dexter every day. I say his name out loud, tell him what I’m doing, or just share little things that remind me of him. Keeping him part of my everyday life brings me peace and helps me feel like he’s still close. You might find that simply saying your dog’s name or sharing a memory with them can bring a quiet kind of comfort.
Create or visit a memorial space. Having a physical place to reflect, whether it’s a garden like Dexter’s, a framed photo collection, or a simple keepsake, can give you something grounding to return to.
Let yourself feel it all. Some days you might cry and feel like your heart is breaking. Other days you may feel numb or completely disconnected. All of that is okay. There is no right way to grieve, and there is no wrong way either. Grief is personal, and it doesn’t follow a schedule. However it shows up for you, it deserves care and kindness.
Seek out community. Pet loss grief support groups, especially ones online, can help you feel understood and less alone. There are many people who truly get what you’re going through.
Release the guilt. If you made decisions out of love and with your dog’s best interest at heart, that is enough. You gave them the gift of a peaceful goodbye.
You Are Not Alone
Whether you’re grieving the loss of a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel after euthanasia, or you’re reeling after losing a pet suddenly, you are not alone in this. Pet loss grief is heavy. Losing a pet after 15 years is life-changing.
I still see Dexter in everything I do. For the first month after he passed, I actually heard his little snorts in the house. His legacy lives on in the work I share, in the families I help, and in the quiet moments in the garden.
If you’re here because you’re missing your own beloved dog, I’m so sorry. But I’m here with you. And I hope sharing Dexter’s story helps even just a little bit.
💙 Tonya 💜 Stewart 🌈 Angel Dexter

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Adopting a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel: Bringing Home Your Adopted Cavalier King Charles Spaniel

June 8, 2025What to Expect When You Adopt a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel

If you are getting ready to adopt a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel, you are probably excited and maybe a little nervous. That is completely normal. Cavaliers are an incredibly loving breed, but they also come with their own needs and quirks. If you are new to the Cavalier breed, I want to walk you through what to expect and how to make the transition smoother for both of you. As a positive dog trainer, longtime Cavalier mom, and former Ohio coordinator for Cavalier Rescue USA, I’ve helped many families through this stage.
Understanding the Cavalier Personality: Sweet, Sporty, and Velcro Like
Cavalier King Charles Spaniels are companion dogs, and while that is true, there is more to them than just cuddles. Some Cavaliers absolutely love snuggling up on the couch, but others are more active and playful. They are still spaniels at heart, which means many enjoy chasing, sniffing, and exploring just like their bigger sporting cousins. I have known plenty of Cavalier families who came from the Golden Retriever world, myself included, and felt like they were getting that same active and loving personality in a smaller body. If you are looking for a dog who wants to be with you and part of your everyday life, you will likely fall in love with the Cavalier. Just know that some are mellow lovebugs, and others are busy little athletes. Either way, they are happiest when they are included and not left alone too long.

Cavalier King Charles Spaniel Health Concerns Are Common, but You Can Be Ready
If you have spent any time researching Cavalier King Charles Spaniels, you have probably come across some of the health concerns that show up in this breed. And yes, they are real. Conditions like Chiari malformation, syringomyelia, and mitral valve disease are unfortunately very common in Cavaliers. My first Cavalier, Dexter, came from a wonderful breeder, and even he developed both Chiari and heart disease during his life.
That said, many of us who share our lives with Cavaliers learn how to manage these conditions and still enjoy full, happy years together. Being prepared helps more than anything. Knowing what to watch for, working with a good vet, and staying on top of routine care can make a big difference.
I never want to scare anyone away from the breed, I just want you to feel informed and supported. I have written several blog posts about Cavalier King Charles Spaniel health conditions, if you want to dig deeper. The most important thing to remember is that you are not alone. Most Cavalier families have been there too.

Why Cavalier King Charles Spaniel Breed Rescues Are a Great Option
If you are new to the breed, I often recommend working with a Cavalier-specific rescue. These rescues truly understand the breed’s personality, behavior patterns, and common health issues. Most Cavaliers are placed in foster homes, which gives the rescue insight into how each dog behaves in a real home environment. Some may have already received advanced vet care or even MRIs, which gives families more peace of mind during the adoption process.
And yes, there are Cavalier King Charles Spaniel puppies available through rescue, not just adult or senior Cavaliers. If you are hoping for guidance during the adoption process and want a rescue that knows the breed inside and out, a Cavalier-specific rescue organization can be an excellent choice.
Cavalier Puppy, Adult, or Senior: What to Expect at Each Stage
Whether you are adopting a puppy, an adult, or a senior Cavalier, each stage comes with its own needs. Puppies need more structure and supervision. They need short, gentle social experiences, plenty of naps, and lots of help with potty training. Adult Cavaliers may be more settled, but they still need time to adjust and learn your routine. Senior Cavaliers can be wonderful companions, often already housetrained and happy to rest nearby. There is no wrong choice here. It just depends on what fits your lifestyle.
Preparing Your Home and Family for a New Cavalier King Charles Spaniel
Before your Cavalier King Charles Spaniel comes home, take a little time to prepare your home and talk with your family. Sit down together and decide who will take care of feeding, potty breaks, walks, playtime, and quiet time. When everyone knows their role from the start, it helps your new Cavalier feel more secure and builds a consistent routine.
Set up a calm area in your home just for your new Cavalier. A cozy crate or bed in a quiet corner, a few soft toys, and some safe chews are great for helping your Cavalier settle in. Make sure cords, shoes, and other tempting items are put away, especially if you are bringing home a puppy or younger dog. Even adult Cavaliers can get curious in a new space.
If you have a fenced yard, check the gate and walk the perimeter for any gaps or spots where a small dog could slip through. I usually recommend starting with supervised potty breaks on leash, even in a fenced area, until your Cavalier is used to their new environment.
A little preparation goes a long way in setting your new family member up for a smooth transition.
Understanding the Power of Threes in Cavalier Rescue
In dog rescue, we often talk about the power of threes. This simple framework helps explain what many Cavaliers go through emotionally during their first few months in a new home. It is not a strict rule, but it is a helpful way to understand their transition and give them the space they need to settle in.
The first three days are usually about decompression. Your new Cavalier may seem quiet, shut down, or unsure about what is happening. They might follow you closely or, on the flip side, prefer to watch from a safe distance. Keep things simple during this time. Set up a quiet space for them to rest, stick to a predictable routine, and avoid too much excitement or busy outings. They may not eat, or even potty right away.
By the three-week mark, many Cavaliers start to open up. This is when their personality begins to peek through. You might notice them being a little braver, exploring new spaces, or even testing some boundaries. It is a good time to gently introduce short, positive training games, low-pressure social experiences, and enrichment activities. Keep things light and fun. Try not to overwhelm them with too much at once.
At the three-month point, most Cavaliers begin to find their groove. They start to understand your routine, feel more secure in the home, and build real trust. This is often when that deeper bond starts to form. You will likely see more affection, playfulness, and eagerness to connect. You can begin layering in more positive training if your Cavalier is ready, and you will probably notice that they start to look to you for guidance in new situations.
Throughout all three stages, patience and predictability are key. Let your Cavalier move at their own pace. Celebrate the little wins and keep your focus on helping them feel safe and supported.
How Stewart Settled In After Adoption
That was exactly what happened with Stewart, my current Cavalier. I adopted him from Cavalier Rescue USA in December, 2025. He went through each of those stages almost like a checklist. During the first few days, he was quiet, cautious, and mostly stuck close to me or curled up in his safe spot. I couldn’t step out of the room without him running after me. I gave him a lot of space, kept things simple, and just focused on helping him feel secure.
Around the three-week mark, I started to notice him feeling more comfortable at not being on my heels. I could step out of my bedroom without him making a mad dash after me.
By three months, he had found his place. He felt comfortable in the home, trusted me fully, and his personality really started to shine. I could tell he knew this was his home and I was his person. It took time, but that time was so worth it. Letting him adjust at his own pace gave him the confidence to blossom into who he really is. By the way, he’s a true red head!
Potty Training Your Cavalier King Charles Spaniel from Day One
When you bring home your new Cavalier King Charles Spaniel, whether a puppy, adult, or senior, it is best to assume they are not fully housetrained in your home yet. Even if they were doing well in their previous environment, everything is new now. New routines, new surfaces, new smells. So start fresh.
Take your Cavalier outside often in the beginning. I usually recommend every thirty minutes during the first few days. Go with them, keep them on a leash, and stay calm and quiet. If they are not used to a leash, use a 10’ leash so they feel they have a bit more privacy and distance. When they go potty outside, praise them gently and offer a small treat. Let them sniff around for a bit afterward. Potty time should not feel rushed.
If an accident happens indoors, do not scold or punish. Just clean it up and calmly take your Cavalier back outside. Punishment can create fear or confusion, especially for sensitive dogs, and may even lead to more issues like hiding to go potty or eating poop.
The more consistent you are with the routine, the quicker your Cavalier will catch on. Keep potty breaks calm, rewarding, and predictable. That structure builds confidence and trust, two of the most important parts of a successful transition.

What to Do If Your Cavalier King Charles Spaniel Will Not Eat
When you first bring home your Cavalier King Charles Spaniel, eating might be a little unpredictable. Some newly adopted Cavaliers are too nervous or unsure to eat much those first few days, and that is completely normal. Stress, new surroundings, and a change in routine can all affect appetite.
Offer their healthy meals in a quiet and calm space, away from household activity. Give them time to sniff and explore without pressure. If your Cavalier seems uninterested in food, try gently warming it or adding a spoonful of dog friendly bone broth, meat toppers, or something familiar if you know what they were eating before.
It helps to offer food on a consistent schedule and then pick it up after ten to fifteen minutes, so they start learning the routine. If they didn’t eat, you can try again in say, an hour.
If your Cavalier has not eaten anything for more than a couple of days, or seems overly lethargic or uncomfortable, reach out to your veterinarian. But in most cases, it just takes a little patience and a calm environment for them to feel safe enough to eat.

Leash Training Your Cavalier King Charles Spaniel: Building Confidence One Step at a Time
Some newly adopted Cavaliers have never worn a harness or walked on a leash before. If that is the case, it is important to go slow and make the experience as positive as possible. Start by letting your Cavalier sniff the leash and harness while offering a few treats and gentle praise. When they seem comfortable, clip on the harness calmly and reward again.
Take just one or two steps and give a treat. Another step, another treat. Keep it short and easy. If your Cavalier freezes or seems unsure, stop and give them time. No pulling, no pressure. This gentle approach helps your dog build trust and learn that the leash means good things.
Always make sure the harness fits properly. A lot of Cavaliers can easily slip out of a loose harness if they panic or get spooked. Make sure your Cavalier’s harness is the correct fit and shape for them and that they cannot back out of, especially during those first few weeks. If you are not sure about the fit, most local pet stores will help you adjust it. It is also a good time to check your Cavalier’s ID tag and microchip information to make sure everything is up to date.
Leash walking might take time, especially for dogs that are new to it. The key is to keep it positive, low pressure, and consistent. Every little success helps your Cavalier feel more confident.
If you need extra guidance, I walk you through gentle leash introduction step by step inside my Manners, Life Skills, and Foundation Training Course. You will see Stewart learning right alongside you in the videos, so everything is taught in real time, using kind, positive techniques that help your Cavalier build confidence with leash walking and other everyday skills.

Positive Training for Your Cavalier King Charles Spaniel: Building Trust First
When you first bring home a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel, your focus should be on helping them feel safe and connected. This is especially important for Cavaliers coming from rescue situations. They may not understand what is expected yet, and they may be carrying a bit of emotional baggage from their past. That is why I always recommend staying positive, and simple training.
In the beginning, skip the formal training cues and focus on bonding games, enrichment, and confidence building. Play easy games like hand touch or “find it.” Reward your Cavalier for checking in with you, and let them explore without pressure. These small things help build trust and encourage your Cavalier to see you as a safe and supportive person.
Using negative or harsh methods with any dog is harmful, but with a newly adopted Cavalier, it can be especially damaging. Punishment and scolding can increase fear, break trust, and make it harder for your Cavalier to feel at ease. Positive training, on the other hand, helps your Cavalier feel successful. It creates a safe space where learning happens through kindness and connection.
For now, just take it slow. Focus on connection and small wins. That foundation will support everything else that follows.
Support for Cavalier King Charles Spaniel Families After Adoption
You are not alone in this. I have blog posts, videos, online courses, and even a Facebook group full of Cavalier families who are going through the same things. We share the ups and downs, the progress and the questions.
Thank you for choosing to adopt. Whether you found your Cavalier through a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel rescue, shelter, or responsible breeder, you are opening your home to a Cavalier who truly wants to be loved. And if they are anything like Stewart or Dexter, they are about to love you to the moon and back.

Natural Flea and Tick Prevention for Cavalier King Charles Spaniels (Early access for our Patreon community)

April 17, 2025Gentle, Safe, and Effective for Our Sensitive Cavaliers

Fleas and ticks. Just hearing those words makes me itch. But as a natural Cavalier Mom, I’ve always been cautious about what I put on or in my dogs, especially with delicate and sensitive breeds like Cavalier King Charles Spaniels. These little sweet hearts often have sensitive skin, luxurious coats, and sometimes underlying conditions like Chiari malformation or syringomyelia, which can make them more vulnerable to adverse reactions.
I’ve been on this natural journey for years, first with Dexter and now with Stewart. Along the way, I’ve learned that staying chemical-free when it comes to flea and tick care is absolutely possible, it just takes a little planning and a lot of label reading.
This is the natural flea and tick routine I’ve found works best for my Cavaliers.
Why I Choose a Natural Approach for My Cavalier King Charles Spaniels
Conventional flea and tick treatments may offer quick results, but they also come with serious risks. Side effects can range from skin irritation, itching, and digestive upset to more concerning issues like tremors, seizures, and in some cases even organ damage. These are not small concerns.
For a breed like the Cavalier King Charles Spaniel, those risks are even more concerning. Cavaliers are already prone to neurological conditions like Chiari malformation, seizures, tremors, and episodic falling syndrome. I’m especially cautious about using anything that lists seizures or neurological side effects as possible outcomes. It just doesn’t make sense to use a treatment that could trigger the very issues this breed is already vulnerable to.
Choosing a natural approach isn’t about trying to be perfect. For me, it’s about reducing chemical exposure wherever I can and building a thoughtful, layered prevention plan that supports overall health instead of relying on a single product to do it all.
My Natural Flea and Tick Prevention Plan for My Cavalier King Charles Spaniel
1. Regular Grooming and Bathing-I bathe Stewart every three to four weeks using a safe, gentle dog shampoo made without synthetic preservatives, artificial fragrances, or harsh surfactants. I’ve been using 4-Legger’s USDA-certified organic formulas for years because I trust their ingredient panel and transparency. They have a variety of formulas that help deter ticks and fleas.
Bathing regularly doesn’t just clean your Cavalier. It helps interrupt the flea life cycle. A good soak and lather can wash away flea eggs, dirt, and debris that might attract pests. When I use a shampoo that includes properly diluted essential oils known to repel fleas and ticks, it gives Stewart an extra layer of protection even after his bath is done.
2. Natural Tick and Flea Sprays for Daily Protection-Before every walk, I spray Stewart with a natural flea and tick repellent. I pay close attention to his legs, chest, tail, and belly, basically anywhere that might brush up against grass, shrubs, or wooded areas. These sprays are one of our most important layers of protection, and I use them daily during warm weather or anytime we’re heading into a high-risk area.
Over the years, I’ve rotated between trusted store-bought options and homemade recipes using properly diluted dog-safe essential oils. I always avoid sprays with synthetic preservatives or ingredients that could irritate a dog’s skin.
When I make my own, I tailor the recipe to the season, the environment, and even the behavior of my dog. Dexter, for example, used to try to catch bees, so I avoided blends with oils like rose geranium that might attract them. The key with any natural tick and flea spray is to apply it each time your Cavalier goes outside. These blends are not designed to last for hours at a time, and a quick re-spritz before each outing is what really makes the difference. I keep a bottle near the door so it becomes part of our daily walking routine.
DIY Natural Flea and Tick Spray for Dogs
This is one of my favorite natural sprays to help keep fleas and ticks at bay, without resorting to harsh chemical treatments. It’s simple to make, and you can use it on both your dog and yourself before heading outside.
What You’ll Need:

3 ounces distilled water
1/4 ounce vodka or grain alcohol (helps disperse oils evenly)
1/4 teaspoon vegetable glycerin (moisturizing and helps blend)

Essential Oils:

4 drops Cedarwood– repels fleas and ticks while being gentle on skin
4 drops Geranium– especially helpful against ticks
3 drops Lavender– calming and gently repels insects
1 drop Citronella– useful for deterring mosquitoes, fleas, and ticks
1 drop Peppermint– offers cooling relief and additional repellent support

How to Make It: Add all the ingredients to a 4-ounce (or larger) amber or cobalt blue glass spray bottle. Shake gently to combine.
How to Use It: Before walks or time outside, shake well and lightly mist your dog’s legs, belly, tail, and along the back. Always avoid spraying near the face and eyes. For areas like the ears, chest, or neck, spray a small amount into your hands first, then gently rub it into your dog’s fur. This helps you apply it more precisely and makes sure it reaches the coat and skin. Always apply when your dog is dry for best results.
Storage Tip: Store your spray in a cool, dark place and an amber or cobalt glass bottle helps protect the essential oils from light exposure, which can cause them to break down over time. Shake before each use to keep the oils properly dispersed.
Simple DIY Natural Flea and Tick Spray for Dogs
When I first started making Dexter’s flea and tick sprays, I kept things really simple. I used just distilled water and a few carefully chosen essential oils. Using just distilled water and essential oils is a great option if you plan to make small batches and use them up fairly quickly. It is easy, gentle, and perfect for Cavalier parents who want something simple. You will still need to shake the bottle well before each use, just like with any natural spray.
If you want your spray to blend a little more evenly and stay fresher a little longer, using the above recipe with the grain alcohol and vegetable glycerin can help. Alcohol acts as a natural preservative and helps the oils disperse a little better through the water. Glycerin can also add some moisture to the coat and skin.
Both options are good, it really depends on what fits best with your dog’s needs and your routine. If you are going through the spray quickly, distilled water and oils work just fine. If you want a little more staying power and an extra moisturizing boost, the version with alcohol and glycerin might be a better fit.
You can also check out four of Dexter’s natural flea and tick spray recipes on my Raising Your Pets Naturally blog.
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Why Different Natural Tick and Flea Sprays Work for Different Dogs
One thing I learned through experience and from chatting with other natural pet parents is that not every spray works the same way for every dog. Some ticks are more common in certain regions and are repelled by specific essential oils. That’s why I rotate between formulas and stay flexible with what I use. If something stops working, I adjust. It’s not failure, it’s just part of the process.
3. Apple Cider Vinegar for Flea and Tick Support-Raw, unfiltered apple cider vinegar (ACV) is another natural tool I like to keep on hand as part of a layered approach to flea and tick prevention. While it won’t kill fleas or ticks, it can help make your dog less appealing to them.
You can make a simple spray by mixing equal parts raw ACV and distilled water in a spray bottle and lightly misting your dog’s legs and belly. Just be sure to avoid the face, and only use it on healthy, unbroken skin. If your dog has any skin sensitivities or open spots, it’s best to skip ACV topically.
You can also add a small amount of ACV to your Cavalier’s food or water. Not all dogs tolerate vinegar well, especially those with sensitive stomachs or urinary issues. It’s also important if you add it to your Cavalier’s water, they also have non-altered fresh water available.
4. Amber Collars for Natural Flea and Tick Repellent Repellant-Another layer is a raw Baltic amber collar. These collars are made from unpolished amber resin that naturally releases aromatic compounds when warmed by your dog’s body. These compounds can help repel ticks and fleas without adding any scent or chemicals to your dog’s skin.
While I wouldn’t rely on them as the only form of protection, I absolutely feel they can help in the overall care to keep our Cavaliers tick and flea free naturally. They’re lightweight, chemical-free, and easy to clip on. With Cavaliers, just make sure the collar sits comfortably behind their ears and doesn’t tangle with their feathering. If your Cavalier has Chiari malformation, this may not be an option if they can’t wear a collar comfortably.
5. Ultrasonic Tick Tags-Another tool to add to your flea and tick routine is an ultrasonic tick tag. There are various brands that make these small devices that clip onto your dog’s collar or harness. They emit a high-frequency pulse that humans and dogs can’t hear, but it’s designed to interfere with a tick or flea’s ability to orient themselves toward your dog.
These tags are scent-free and totally safe for sensitive dogs like Cavaliers. This type of tag is helpful during hikes, trail walks, or visits to areas known for higher tick populations. It’s a simple, noninvasive step that adds an extra layer of protection.
6. Diatomaceous Earth for Natural Flea and Tick Prevention-Food-grade diatomaceous earth is another natural tool I use as part of our flea and tick routine. It’s a fine powder made from fossilized algae that works by drying out the exoskeletons of pests like fleas and ticks. I don’t use it as a primary prevention method, but it’s a helpful layer, especially after we’ve been somewhere with higher pest exposure.
To apply, I lightly sprinkle a small amount down Stewart’s back and gently brush it into his coat, avoiding his eyes, nose, and mouth. It’s best used when your dog is dry and in a well-ventilated area. You can also use it on bedding or around baseboards during flea season as part of a regular cleaning routine.
Watch how I apply it and don’t forget to subscribe to @CavalierTipsandFun YouTube channel for more!

7. Using Garlic to Support Immune Health and Repel Fleas Naturally-Garlic might be controversial in some circles, but when used responsibly, it’s one of my go-to immune support tools. Garlic often gets a bad reputation because in 2000, they did a study on four dogs and gave them an extreme amount of garlic ( about 25 cloves a day for a 25-pound dog), and they had a bad reaction. That’s not even close to how we’d use garlic in a natural, supportive way. You can read the study here.
I started using fresh garlic years ago with Dexter, and it’s something I continue with Stewart now that he’s old enough for it. Garlic supports the immune system and helps repel fleas and ticks from the inside out. I only use fresh, organic garlic, peeled and minced about ten minutes before mealtime to allow the allicin to activate. Then I mix it into Stewart’s food. I never exceed the recommended amount and only feed garlic for up to three days in a row, followed by five to seven days off.
I never use garlic with puppies, pregnant or nursing dogs, dogs with anemia, or those with upcoming surgeries. It’s not a fit for every dog, so I always recommend checking with a holistic vet first.
Garlic Dose For Dogs: The approximate dose of fresh, organic garlic is 1/8 teaspoon for a 5 pound dog, 1/4 teaspoon for dogs between 6 and 10 pounds, 1/2 teaspoon for 11 to 15 pounds, 3/4 teaspoon for 16 to 20 pounds, and 1 teaspoon for dogs between 21 and 30 pounds. Dogs between 31 and 50 pounds can have 1 1/2 teaspoons, and those over 51 pounds can have up to 2 teaspoons.
8. Spotting and Removing Ticks and Fleas from Your Cavalier King Charles Spaniel-No matter how many prevention tools we use, I always do a hands-on check after walks or outings, especially during peak tick season. I check Stewart’s paws, armpits, ears, groin area, and the base of his tail. These are the spots where ticks love to latch on.
If I do find a tick, I remove it immediately with a tick remover or fine-point tweezers, making sure to grab close to the skin and pull straight out. Afterward, I place it in a bottle with alcohol and wash my hands. I’ve found this routine not only gives me peace of mind but also helps me stay in tune with any changes in Stewart’s skin or coat.
A Quick Note About Dexter’s Experience
As Dexter was in his late senior years and his neurological condition progressed, I started to notice the occasional flea here and there, more than we had seen in the past. His immune system wasn’t as strong, and that likely made him more vulnerable to pests. This isn’t uncommon in aging dogs or those with health challenges. Their bodies just don’t have the same defenses they once did.
I made it a daily routine to sit with Dexter and go over him carefully with a flea comb and a small jar of alcohol to catch any runners before they could become a real problem. I also stayed on top of sweeping and washing his bedding regularly. Thankfully, it never got out of control, just a flea here and there, but it reminded me how important it is to stay consistent.
It also reinforced why I’ve always chosen to avoid harsh flea treatments. With Dexter’s compromised system, exposing him to chemicals could have caused even more serious issues. Supporting his health naturally, with gentle and consistent care, was always the safest choice for him.
Final Thoughts on Natural Flea and Tick Care for Cavaliers
If you’re just starting your natural flea and tick care journey, start small. You don’t have to change everything at once. Pick one new step, try it, and see how it fits your dog’s life. Read labels. Ask questions. And most of all, give yourself grace as you navigate what feels right for you and your Cavalier.
Cavaliers are worth the extra effort, and with how sensitive they can be, choosing gentle, natural care just feels like the right thing to do.

Senior Cavalier King Charles Spaniel Care | When Does a Cavalier Become a Senior? (Early access for our Patreon community)

January 23, 2025Supporting Your Senior Cavalier King Charles Spaniel: The Ultimate Guide to Aging Cavaliers

After 15 amazing years with my Cavalier, Dexter it was his time to go to the rainbow bridge. It’s never an easy decision to make and since then, I have been thinking back on our life together. Over the course of his life, I wrote a lot about Dexter on my first blog, Raising Your Pets Naturally. Now, with Stewart, my 7-month-old rescue Cavalier King Charles Spaniel puppy, I’m starting fresh, but with all that I’ve learned from Dexter’s senior years. I thought this would be a good time to explore when a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel is considered a senior, their lifespan, common health concerns, and how we can support our Cavaliers through every stage of life.
At What Age Is a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel Considered a Senior?
If you’re wondering, “When does a Cavalier reach old age?” The answer varies depending on factors like genetics and health. Typically, small breed dogs like Cavaliers are considered seniors between 7 and 10 years old. While this is a general guideline, you may notice your dog showing signs of aging earlier or later.

Some indicators of senior status include:

Decreased Interest in Play: They may be less enthusiastic about toys or games they used to enjoy.
Weight Changes: Unexplained weight gain or loss can be a sign of aging or underlying health issues.
Changes in Vision or Hearing: Difficulty seeing or responding to cues may suggest declining eyesight or hearing.
Increased Time Spent Resting: Senior dogs often nap more during the day and may tire easily after exercise.
Changes in Appetite: They may eat less or show more picky eating habits.
Difficulty Climbing Stairs or Jumping: You might notice hesitancy or struggle with previously easy physical activities.
Behavioral Changes: Increased anxiety, clinginess, or even irritability may indicate aging.
Frequent Bathroom Breaks: Aging can bring bladder control issues or an increased need to urinate.
Dull or Thinning Coat: Their fur might lose its luster or feel thinner in certain areas.
Dental Issues: Bad breath, difficulty chewing, or loss of teeth can become more prominent.
Reduced Tolerance for Cold or Heat: Seniors may seek out warmth or avoid strenuous activity in hot weather.
Increased Vocalization: They may bark or whine more often, potentially due to discomfort, anxiety, or confusion.
Cognitive Changes: Signs of canine cognitive dysfunction (CCD) include disorientation, restlessness, or forgetting familiar routines.
Slower movement or stiffness in the morning: Your Cavalier may take a little longer to get going in the mornings, which can be a sign of joint stiffness or early arthritis.
Graying fur, often around the muzzle: Just like humans, dogs may develop gray hairs as they age, particularly around their face.

But don’t worry, aging doesn’t mean your Cavalier is slowing down in spirit! With the right care and attention, they can still enjoy life to the fullest.
What Is the Life Expectancy of a Cavalier?
You may have heard the question, “How long do Cavaliers live?” The average lifespan of a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel is approximately 10.45 years. This is based on a 2022 UK study of veterinary data. However, some studies suggest a slightly longer lifespan, with a 2024 UK study indicating an average of 11.8 years for the breed. The typical lifespan of a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel is around 9-14 years. That said, some Cavaliers, like Dexter, surpass this average with proper care, while others may face challenges earlier due to health conditions.
Common Health Issues in Cavaliers
Cavaliers are an incredibly loving and joyful breed, but they do have a predisposition to certain health issues. Knowing what to watch for and being proactive in their care can help them live a happy and long life.

Mitral Valve Disease (MVD): Nearly every Cavalier King Charles Spaniel owner will face mitral valve disease at some point if their dog lives long enough. This heart condition affects the valve’s ability to close properly, leading to a heart murmur and, eventually, heart failure if untreated. Yearly heart check-ups with a cardiologist can help monitor and manage this condition.
Chiari-like Malformation (CM): Because of the breed’s unique head shape, it’s estimated that 95 to 99% of Cavaliers will develop a condition called Chiari-like malformation (CM). This happens when the skull is a bit too small for the brain, causing part of the brain to push into the spinal canal. CM can result in pain, weakness, or in severe cases, even paralysis. While there’s no cure, symptoms can often be managed with medications and regular vet check-ups, helping your dog feel more comfortable.
Hip Dysplasia and Patella Luxation: While less common in Cavaliers compared to larger breeds, these conditions can cause joint pain and mobility issues. Patella luxation, which is a dislocation of the kneecap, is more common in Cavaliers and can lead to lameness and discomfort. Keeping your Cavalier at a healthy weight is key to reducing stress on their joints and managing these conditions.
Eye and Ear Problems: Cavaliers are prone to progressive retinal atrophy (PRA), cataracts, and ear infections. Regular grooming and vet visits help catch these issues early.
Intervertebral Disc Disease (IVDD): IVDD is a condition where the discs in your dog’s spine become damaged or degenerate, causing pain, weakness, or even paralysis in severe cases. Cavaliers are particularly vulnerable to this, especially as they age. Be on the lookout for signs of discomfort, difficulty moving, or dragging their back legs.
Myoclonus: Myoclonus refers to muscle twitches or jerks that can occur in Cavalier seniors, especially around the head or neck area. While it’s usually not painful, it’s important to consult with a vet to rule out underlying issues such as neurological problems.
Medium-Chain Acyl-CoA Dehydrogenase (MCAD) Deficiency: This genetic condition affects Cavaliers’ ability to properly metabolize certain fats, which can lead to serious health problems, including low blood sugar, lethargy, and, in severe cases, sudden death. The great thing is that there’s a quick and easy at-home swab test available to check if your Cavalier has MCAD. It’s a simple step that can give you peace of mind and help catch this condition early. It’s a proactive way to care for your Cavalier’s long-term health.

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Supporting Your Cavalier Through All Life Stages
Caring for a senior Cavalier means making thoughtful changes to their routine. As our dogs get older, their needs shift in different ways. They may slow down, develop new health concerns, or simply need more comfort. These changes are completely normal, and it’s up to us to help them adjust so they can continue to feel their best. With a little extra care and attention, we can make sure they stay happy, healthy, and comfortable as they age. Whether it’s modifying their diet, adjusting their exercise, or making small changes to your home, these little changes go a long way in supporting their well-being. After all, they’ve given us so many wonderful years of love and companionship, and now it’s our turn to return the favor.
Nutrition for Senior Cavaliers
As your Cavalier enters their senior years, their nutritional needs often shift to support their changing bodies. A balanced diet made with fresh, high-quality ingredients like Omega-3s, antioxidants, glucosamine, and chondroitin can help maintain joint health, cognitive function, and overall vitality. Glucosamine and chondroitin play an essential role in supporting cartilage and joint health and can be included in their diet through natural sources like bone broth, chicken feet, or beef trachea, or through supplements if needed. Adding these fresh foods as part of their meals or even as toppers can provide a natural boost that processed options often lack. Every dog is unique, so working with your vet or a canine nutritionist is key to crafting a plan that meets your Cavalier’s specific needs.
When Dexter was diagnosed with kidney issues in his senior years, I found that his diet needed some adjustments. He had been raw-fed for most of his life, but with the help of his veterinarian, I transitioned him to a customized, home-cooked diet to better support his health. Bones, which are a staple in raw feeding, are high in phosphorus, a mineral I needed to limit. To make up for the lack of bone calcium, I switched to eggshell calcium, which is lower in phosphorus and just as effective.
I also began boiling his meat and discarding the cooking water, which helped reduce the phosphorus content even further. I carefully selected foods that were naturally lower in phosphorus, like certain vegetables and proteins. Dexter was also starting to lose weight, so I added carbs like rice and sweet potatoes to help him maintain his energy and body condition.
These changes made a big difference in his quality of life. While home-cooking may not be for everyone, it’s worth exploring alternatives to prescription diets if your Cavalier develops a medical condition. A good veterinarian or certified dog nutritionist can guide you in creating a plan that meets your dog’s needs without compromising on fresh, wholesome ingredients.
💡 Pro tip: Every Cavalier is unique, and what works for one dog may not work for another. Always partner with your vet or a canine nutritionist to find the best approach for your senior Cavalier. Giving them a fresh diet tailored to their needs is one of the best ways to show your love and care during their golden years.
Exercise and Mental Enrichment
Gentle exercise is important for keeping your senior Cavalier feeling their best, but it’s all about adjusting to their abilities. When Dexter reached his senior years, mosey walks became our go-to. He loved taking his time, sniffing every blade of grass, and enjoying the world at his own pace. When he got tired, I’d pop him into his stroller so we could continue our adventure without overdoing it. That stroller wasn’t just for outdoor strolls either, it was perfect for indoor store adventures, allowing him to stay engaged and part of the action while giving his body the rest it needed.
Mental enrichment was just as important as physical exercise. One of Dexter’s favorite activities was a “find it” game with cardboard boxes. I’d hide a treat in a box, spread them around, and watch his excitement as he used his nose to uncover the prize. It was the perfect mix of mental stimulation and gentle movement. For senior Cavaliers, simple adjustments like these can make a huge difference. Whether it’s a slow walk, a stroller ride, or an engaging puzzle, finding activities that fit their needs helps them stay vibrant and connected to the world around them.
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Natural Therapies for Senior Cavaliers
As Cavaliers age, their bodies may need extra support to stay comfortable and mobile. Therapies like at-home laser treatments, physical therapy, and acupuncture made a big difference for Dexter in his senior years. Actually, Dexter had these treatments the majority of his life due to his Chiari malformation. These options can reduce pain, improve mobility, and help manage chronic conditions like arthritis.
Dexter had regular physical therapy visits, where he worked with a canine rehabilitation specialist to keep his joints moving and his muscles strong. I also had simple at-home exercises to follow up with between visits, ensuring he stayed as active as possible without overdoing it. Using a laser therapy device at home helped target areas of stiffness or soreness, and his PEMF (Pulsed Electromagnetic Field) bed became one of his favorite spots to rest. PEMF therapy didn’t just support his comfort but also promoted better circulation and reduced inflammation.
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Acupuncture was another natural treatment that worked well for Dexter, offering gentle relief from discomfort and improving his overall quality of life. These treatments, along with his regular routine, were all part of ensuring he was comfortable and able to enjoy his senior years to the fullest.
If you’re considering these therapies for your Cavalier, talk with your Cavalier’s holistic vet or a canine rehabilitation specialist. They can guide you toward the best options for your Cavalier’s individual needs and help create a plan to support their comfort and mobility.
Veterinary Care and Preventative Check-Ups
Regular vet visits are essential, especially as your Cavalier gets older. I recommend scheduling check-ups at least once a year, but if your dog is on medications or managing a condition, like Dexter was, labs every 4 months can give you a better picture of their health. Semi-annual check-ups are also a good idea to catch early signs of issues like MVD, joint problems, or anything else that may need attention. Don’t hesitate to bring up any subtle changes you’ve noticed, whether it’s weight loss, fatigue, or coughing. Early intervention is key, and your vet can provide valuable guidance to help you manage your Cavalier’s health, ensuring they stay happy and comfortable as they age.
Cardiologist Visits
I highly recommend that every Cavalier sees a cardiologist at least once a year. Cardiologists specialize in heart health and truly understand the ins and outs of heart disease, including conditions like MVD, which Cavaliers are prone to. Even if your dog hasn’t been diagnosed with anything serious yet, a cardiologist can spot early signs of issues that might not be apparent to you or your regular vet. If your Cavalier is diagnosed with MVD, your cardiologist may recommend more frequent visits to monitor the progression of the disease and adjust their treatment plan as needed. Having a heart specialist on your team gives you peace of mind and ensures you’re taking proactive steps to care for your dog’s heart health.
Making Your Home Senior-Friendly
As your Cavalier enters their senior years, small changes around the house can make a world of difference in how they move and rest. Senior dogs often experience joint stiffness, and their mobility may not be what it once was, so providing a comfortable and safe environment helps them feel at ease. These adjustments don’t have to be drastic, but they can really support your dog’s needs as they age.

Ramps or Steps: It’s always a good idea to have ramps or steps in place, even if your Cavalier is still young. Jumping down from furniture can put strain on their joints and neck, leading to potential issues down the road. Ramps or steps make it easier for them to get on and off the couch or into the car, preventing unnecessary stress on their bodies. These additions are a simple way to protect your Cavalier from injury and support their mobility throughout all stages of life, ensuring they can continue to join in on the fun without risk.
Orthopedic Beds: Comfort is key when it comes to senior Cavaliers. Cushioned orthopedic beds provide much-needed support for aging joints and pressure points. Dexter was a fan of cooling mats all year, so I made sure to place them throughout the house, including on his beds, to keep him cool. But I always left at least one bed without a cooling mat, in case he wanted to curl up and stay cozy. The goal is to ensure they have a comfortable place to rest, with options that suit their changing needs.
Non-Slip Surfaces: Slippery floors can be a senior dog’s worst enemy. To prevent falls, I recommend adding rugs or carpets to high-traffic areas, especially in places like the kitchen or hallway. You can also try ToeGrips(use promo code: DEXTER for 10% Off Your First Order), which help with traction, so your Cavalier can walk confidently. Making sure they have a stable environment to navigate helps keep them safe, especially when they’re getting around slower than they used to.

How Long Do Cavaliers Live? Cherish Every Moment
If there’s one thing Dexter taught me, it’s to appreciate the little moments, whether it was a slow morning walk, the rare occasion when he’d want to be close and rest in the nook of my legs, or simply watching him nap and snore in the sunshine. Dexter wasn’t much of a cuddler, but when he wanted to be near me, I made sure to savor those times. Our Cavaliers may not live as long as we’d like, but the joy they bring into our lives is something we’ll never forget.
When Stewart reaches his senior years, I know I’ll be ready to give him the care and love he deserves. For now, I’m soaking up every playful, puppy-filled moment.

Winter Safety Tips for Your Cavalier King Charles Spaniel: Keeping Your Cavalier Warm in the Winter (Early access for our Patreon community)

December 25, 2024Winter Tips for a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel

Brrrr, it’s cold out there! Winter in Ohio can be tough, and today, it’s a chilly 15 degrees. Thankfully, Stewart and I are bundled up inside, but it’s the perfect time to share some essential winter safety tips for your Cavalier King Charles Spaniel. Whether you’re venturing outdoors or staying warm indoors, these precautions and activities will help keep your pup safe, healthy, and happy all winter long.
Safety First: Protecting Your Cavalier in Winter
Limit Outdoor Time
Our Cavaliers are family members, and they thrive indoors with us. While Stewart loves his outdoor potty breaks and a quick sniff around the yard, I always limit his time outside when temperatures dip. Frostbite and hypothermia are real risks for dogs, especially small breeds like Cavaliers. Keep outings short, and always monitor your pup for signs of discomfort.
Protect Those Paws
A dog’s paw pads aren’t built to handle extreme cold or icy surfaces. For quick potty breaks, toddler socks can be a lifesaver; they’re easy to put on and don’t need to be perfect since they’re just for a short trip. Shoot for dark colors, so that if one falls off, it’s easier to find in the snow. For longer walks or outdoor play, dog boots like Saltsox are fantastic options. If your Cavalier goes outside barefoot, be sure to clean their paws thoroughly with a warm washcloth or natural pet wipes to remove ice, salt, and chemicals that could irritate their skin. I make up a bowl of water with a splash of 4-Legger shampoo and a washcloth to clean paws. I make a new batch each day. (Order 4-Legger today with promo code RaiseNaturally20 for 20% off your first order.)

Scoop the Potty Area
I always scoop a clean, clear area in the yard for potty breaks. Cavaliers, like most dogs, prefer a neat spot for their business. A wide, shoveled path ensures your Cavalier can move around comfortably without getting buried in snow.
Coats and Sweaters for Your Cavalier
Dog coats and sweaters are a must for Cavaliers. Look for a jacket that provides full range of motion and covers your pup’s back and belly. Indoors, a cozy sweater can keep your Cavalier comfortable. If you notice your Cavalier sleeping in a tight ball, or even shivering, a dog sweater is a great idea. Stewart’s favorite sweaters are custom-made by MeekByDesign, but there are plenty of great options online or in pet stores.
Should a Cavalier Wear a Hat in the Winter?
Cavaliers’ long, luxurious ears attract snow and ice like a magnet! A lightweight dog hat or snood can protect your Cavalier’s ears during snowy adventures. Afterward, be sure to dry their ears gently with a soft towel.
Staying Warm and Cozy Indoors
When your Cavalier comes inside from the snow or cold, use a super-absorbent microfiber towel to dry him off thoroughly. For an extra touch of luxury, I like to pop a favorite blanket in the dryer so my dog can snuggle up with something warm. These little comforts make a big difference on chilly days!
Indoors, I keep Stewart active and engaged with puzzle toys, hide-and-seek games, and short training sessions. A mentally stimulated pup is a happy pup, even when it’s too cold for a long walk.
Winter Nutrition for Cavaliers
Did you know that certain foods can help your Cavalier King Charles Spaniel stay warm during the chilly months? According to Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM), foods have energetic properties that can influence the body’s temperature and overall balance.
In the winter, it’s beneficial to incorporate “warming” proteins into your dog’s diet. Proteins like chicken, lamb, venison, and even goat are considered warming and can help offset the cold temperatures. These proteins are especially good for dogs who seem more sensitive to the cold or have lower energy during the winter.
You can also include warming spices and herbs like ginger or turmeric in small, dog-safe amounts to add a cozy touch to their meals. These not only are warming, but also support joint health during cold weather.
If you’re new to adjusting your dog’s diet seasonally, start slow by adding one or two warming ingredients to their current meals. Always consult with your vet or a canine nutrition expert to ensure your Cavalier’s diet remains balanced and meets their individual needs.
Embrace the Season
Stewart may be new to my home, but we’re already making the most of winter together. From brisk walks in his cozy new jacket to snuggling under a warm blanket on chilly evenings, these little moments remind me of the special bond we share. No matter the season, Cavaliers have a way of bringing warmth and joy to our lives.
How do you keep your Cavalier comfortable and happy during the winter months? Share your tips below, I’d love to hear them!

How to Bathe a Cavalier Puppy for the First Time: Willow’s Bath Time Adventure! (Early access for our Patreon community)

October 30, 2024How to Bathe a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel Puppy

If you are wondering how to bathe a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel puppy at home, I have you covered. As a Cavalier mom and positive dog trainer, I’m ready to help you make bathing your Cavalier puppy not only effective but enjoyable and stress-free for your new Cavalier King Charles Spaniel puppy.
Dexter, who is now fifteen, has had his fair share of dog baths. But, today, I’m going to share how I gave Willow her first bath at home. With the right setup, some tasty treats, taking it slow, and a cozy towel, you can create a zen atmosphere for your Cavalier’s bathtime. So here’s a step-by-step guide to giving your Cavalier King Charles Spaniel puppy their first bath.
Set Up Your Puppy’s Bath Space for Safety and Comfort
First, you want to ensure your puppy’s bathtub or sink is safe and secure. You don’t want your puppy slipping on the surface of a wet tub or sink. First things first-secure the bathtub or sink so your puppy won’t slip. A good rubber mat keeps your Cavalier from slipping, and this alone will help your puppy feel safer in the tub. If your Cavalier is small, like Willow, you can easily bathe them in the sink. But, if they are larger, like Dexter, a tub is a must, or a portable dog bathtub can also work well. I haven’t used one, but I’ve heard from other Cavalier families they are great!
Warm Towel Tip: Before starting your puppy’s bathtime, place a few towels in the dryer. Then, just before you head to the bath, grab the warm towels. Then, after bathtime, your puppy can be wrapped in a warm-and-cozy towel. If you air dry your Cavalier puppy, then add some puppy blankets too, so they can cozy up in the pile of warm blankets.
How to Choose a Puppy Shampoo That is Safe
When choosing a safe puppy shampoo, the first stop is the back of the shampoo bottle to read the entire ingredient panel. Yup, you want to read each ingredient and make sure those ingredients are safe and natural. You may be surprised at the garbage that you find in some puppy shampoos.
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Keep Your Cavalier’s Inner Ears Dry
Protecting those little ears is important. You can place a cotton ball gently in each ear to prevent water from sneaking in, but remember to remove them after! Or, you can simply gently press their ear to their head as you use a warm washcloth.
Be Generous with the Tasty Treats or Lick Mats
Treats are key to conditioning your puppy that bathtime is good. Bath=Treats or Bath=Lick Mat Time Giving treats throughout the bath not only keeps it positive but also helps distract them from what is going on. Talk to your Cavalier puppy through the experience. Let your puppy know how much you love them and that this is a safe experience.
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Introduce Your Puppy to the Bath Gently
When it’s go-time, place your puppy gently in the sink or tub. Willow was a little unsure at first, so I kept things calm and encouraging. We went slowly, allowing her to get comfortable, and rewarded her bravery with treats. You can always do this in steps over a few days if your puppy is nervous. Teaching your Cavalier puppy to enjoy a bath is going to be so important since this is a breed that can benefit from baths to keep their luxurious coat beautiful. The benefit of puppy bathing is that the process can be much shorter than when your Cavalier has a full coat.
Start the Water Slowly
Once your puppy seems a bit settled, turn on the water. Using a shower sprayer is ideal because it’s easier to manipulate around your Cavalier and get the belly and bum area easier. Always check the temperature; you want it warm, but never hot. If your pup gets nervous, reassure them with gentle touches, talk to them, and provide healthy and tasty treats. We want bathtime to be a good thing, not something to avoid.
Wet Your Puppy and Lather Up
Begin with their back, avoiding their face for now. Once they’re damp, add a little shampoo and lather gently. Go slow and talk to your pup throughout to keep them reassured. Make sure to reach all those little spots like under the belly, armpits, and legs.
When it comes to cleaning your Cavalier’s face, be careful and gentle. Grab a soft washcloth, soak it in warm water, and wring out any excess. Gently wipe around your puppy’s face, especially near the eyes and mouth, to keep things clean without needing shampoo. Cavaliers can be sensitive around their eyes, so keep it soothing and slow, making it a comfortable moment for them. If there’s any tear staining, gently focus on those areas but avoid scrubbing.
Rinse Thoroughly
It’s so important to rinse really well to avoid any leftover shampoo that could irritate their skin. Keep the water warm and gently go over each area until you’re sure they’re squeaky clean.
How to Dry a Cavalier After a Bath
Gently squeeze out as much water as possible from their coat while they’re still in the tub, especially from their ears, legs, and belly. Be careful not to pinch their skin. Then grab a warm towel and start rubbing them down right in the tub. Begin with their back and then work down to their legs, belly, and especially those floppy ears! The towel rubdown helps absorb extra moisture and keeps your puppy from dripping everywhere.
Pro tip: When it looks like your puppy is going to shake their head, try covering their ears lightly with a towel. It can help prevent ear issues and keeps the shake-off water spray to a minimum!
Should You Blow-Dry Your Cavalier King Charles Spaniel Puppy?

For a little more drying, a low heat or cool setting on a blow dryer works great. Keep the dryer moving and avoid getting too close to their skin. And, of course, more treats and sweet talk make this part easier too! I would highly recommend desensitizing your puppy to the hair drier first. You can learn how in the video below. If you are going to allow your Cavalier to air-dry, I would suggest using a dog drying jacket and warm , snuggly blanket.
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And there you have it—bathing your Cavalier King Charles Spaniel puppy at home for the first time! If you’re wondering, when should I bathe my puppy for the first time, or how often should I bathe my puppy, it’s usually safe to start around eight to twelve weeks, assuming you are using a truly safe puppy shampoo. With these tips and a positive approach, you’ll help set up your Cavalier King Charles Spaniel puppy for a lifetime of happy bath times.
What part of your puppy’s first bath are you most nervous about? Let me know in the comments. I’d love to help make it a fun experience for both of you!

Celebrating Dexter’s 15th Birthday: A Cavalier’s Life Full of Love and Adventure (Early access for our Patreon community)

September 18, 2024How to Celebrate a Senior Dog’s Birthday and Healthy Dog Cake Recipe

It’s hard to believe that Dexter, my best friend and constant companion, is turning fifteen! I’m over the moon that I am able to celebrate this milestone with him. He may be slowing down a bit, but his spirit and spunk remains as bright as ever. As Dexter has aged, we may have tweaked what we can do, but one thing has stayed the same: we live each day to the fullest, cherishing every moment.
Over the past couple of years, I’ve seen subtle changes in Dexter’s energy and behavior. He doesn’t have the boundless energy of his younger days, and he’s been going through some senior dog anxiety. We’ve learned to adjust our activities together, and I’ve been working on helping him feel more secure as his cognition changes. Our daily enrichment now includes slow, sniffy walks, leisurely poke arounds through the neighborhood followed by a stroll, and indoor adventures. He still enjoys simple training sessions, which keep his mind sharp, and I continue his canine fitness exercises to maintain his mobility and strength.
Earlier this year, Dexter went down in his back end after a reaction to medication. It was a scary time, and I wasn’t sure what his recovery would look like. I was actually wondering if his time was coming to an end. But after three to four months of dedicated rehab, I’m thrilled to share that he’s made a full recovery! Dexter’s resilience has always inspired me, and this experience only deepened my love for him. His ability to bounce back, even at fourteen, is a testament to his incredible spirit.
With Dexter by my side, I’ve been inspired to dive into new creative projects. Over the past year, we launched this blog dedicated to Cavalier King Charles Spaniels. This is actually our second blog! Check out our first blog, Raising Your Pets Naturally. I’ve also created a children’s coloring book, Dexter’s Adventures, bringing his playful and inspiring spirit to life for a younger audience. Which makes this his 3rd children’s book! Everything I do is shaped by Dexter, and I’m so lucky for the joy and inspiration he brings.
Our mantra has always been to live each day to the fullest, and as Dexter turns fifteen, this really hits home. Every day is a gift, and I’m beyond thrilled to have Dexter with me on this journey. Together, we continue to embrace life, even as we both slow down, finding joy in the simple moments we share.
Celebrating Dexter’s birthday is more than just a tradition, it’s a reminder of the love, laughter, and resilience we’ve shared throughout his life. During Dexter’s birthday celebrations, we always make sure to support Cavalier Rescue USA, a cause that’s close to our hearts. If you’re able to donate or volunteer your time, please consider checking them out, and be sure to tell them Dexter sent you!
Here’s to Dexter, my silly monkey, stink pot, my muse, and the one who makes every day brighter with his love.
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Dog-Friendly Strawberry Birthday Cake

Here's Dexter's 15th birthday cake recipe and photos! To make his special day even more memorable, I whipped up a dog-friendly birthday cake that’s not only tasty but also healthy. This homemade dog birthday cake is packed with ingredients Dexter loves. Whether you're planning a dog birthday celebration or looking for a healthy dog birthday cake recipe, this one is sure to be a hit with your pup.

Course cake Keyword dog friendly cake, dog birthday cake,

Prep Time 1 day day Cook Time 50 minutes minutes

Servings 12 Dogs

Author Tonya Wilhelm

IngredientsOptional Blue Spirulina Gummy Paw Print Decoration6 tbsp Beef Gelatin2 tsp Blue Spirulina2 cups Boiling WaterStrawberry Dog Friendly Cake4 cups Quinoa Flour6 Eggs16 oz Strawberries Stems Removed1/4 cup Olive OilOptional Dog Frosting8 oz Cream Cheese check the ingredients to ensure it’s dog-friendly10 oz Butternut Squash Cooked
InstructionsBlue Spirulina Gummy Paw Print DecorationIn a large mixing cup, combine the gelatin and blue spirulina.Quickly stir in the boiling water until fully dissolved.Pour the mixture into the paw print cutouts in the paw-shaped cake pan. Pour any extra in other fun silicone molds.Refrigerate until set then gently remove the paw gelatin shapes.Place the paw shapes on a cookie sheet and return to the refrigerator while preparing the cake.Dog-Friendly Strawberry CakePreheat the oven to 350°F.Purée the strawberries in a blender until smooth.In a large mixing bowl, combine the quinoa flour, eggs, olive oil, and strawberry purée.Generously grease the paw print cake pan with olive oil.Pour the cake batter into the pan and bake for approximately 50 minutes, or until set.Allow the cake to cool for 15 minutes, then carefully remove it from the pan and place it on a cooling rack to cool completely.Optional Dog FrostingPurée the cooked butternut squash in a blender.Add the cream cheese to the purée and blend until smooth and well combined.Once the cake is completely cool, frost the cake with the butternut squash and cream cheese mixture.Top with the blue spirulina gummy paw print decorations for a fun and colorful touch!

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Keeping Your Cavalier King Charles Spaniel Cool and Safe in the Summer Heat (Early access for our Patreon community)

May 14, 2024Hot Weather Tips for Cavalier King Charles Spaniels

People often think of summer as a good time to get out and about with our Cavaliers. As a dog-friendly travel blogger, I’m often pitched ideas and stories about taking Dexter to X outdoors, even in July or August. But, the reality is, that’s usually just too darn hot for my now 14.5 year-old Cavalier King Charles Spaniel, Dexter.
He’s always run a bit hot, but now, as a senior and with MVD, the summer heat is just not ideal for him. But, it’s not just Dexter. Summer heat can pose health issues such as sunburn and heatstroke. Today, I’m going to jump into some ideas on how to keep your Cavalier King Charles Spaniel cool and active during the summer or warm months.
Cavalier King Charles Spaniels and Heat Stroke
Heatstroke is a serious concern for all dog families, particularly for breeds like the Cavalier King Charles Spaniel, which can be more susceptible due to their flat-faced (brachycephalic) nature. Any dog, any breed, and any age can develop heat stroke, even on cool days! The VetCompassTM conducted a study in 2016 regarding the risk factors for heat-related illness (HRI):

Breeds with the highest incidence of HRI included the Chow Chow, Bulldog, French Bulldog, Dogue de Bordeaux, Greyhound, Cavalier King Charles Spaniel, Pug, and the Golden Retriever.
Dogs at or above the mean adult body weight for their breed/sex showed an increased risk of HRI compared to dogs below the mean body weight.
Dogs over 12 years old had the greatest odds of HRI compared to dogs under 2 years old.

Signs of Heatstroke in a Cavalier
Recognizing the signs of heatstroke and taking preventive measures are crucial to keeping your dog safe. Signs such as excessive panting, drooling, rapid pulse, and restlessness indicate your Cavalier may be overheating. If you notice these symptoms, act quickly by providing cool (not cold) water and applying damp towels to areas with good blood flow, such as the head, armpits, and groin. Then take your Cavalier to the vet to prevent things from getting worse.
How Food Affects Your Cavalier’s Ability to Tolerate Heat
Just like for us, our pet’s food does more than just provide them with calories. Food has a big impact on their overall health, affecting everything from their longevity to their behavior and how they handle hot and cold temperatures. According to traditional Chinese medicine (TCM), everything in life has a balance of energy and heat, represented by Yin and Yang. Yin embodies the cool, and yang is the hot. This includes our pets, food, and environment; they all have specific energetics.
Dexter tends to run a little more yang (hot). Therefore, when I’m creating his meals, I aim to have the foods I provide either be energetically cooling or neutral. I avoid energetically warm or hot foods and proteins. For example, common foods that are warming or hot include goat, lamb, venison, chicken, and pheasant. Whereas, cooling proteins include rabbit, duck, beaver, cold water fish, and muskrat.
Applying this feeding concept to our Cavaliers, we can tailor their diets to help regulate their internal temperature. During the warmer months, opting for cooling foods can help maintain balance and comfort for your Cavalier.
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Summer Fun for You and Your Cavalier King Charles Spaniel
Despite the summer heat, Dexter and I still enjoy our summer adventures. They just need to be modified according to the weather. The first thing I do is check the weather, so I’m not out and about with Dexter and surprised! Walking or strolling Dexter in the morning is by far cooler than in the evening. I know people suggest evening walks, but, honestly, the heat from the pavement and the atmosphere seem hotter to me than in the morning. Your location may be different.
Try walking on grassy areas instead of pavement. Shady parks beat the noon sun. Breezy days while wading in the water are another fun way to help your Cavalier stay cool. However, if it’s still sunny or warm, cool water on their feet and a breeze are unlikely to cut it.
We do a lot of indoor adventures during the summer months. Pet stores, dog friendly stores and attractions are our go-tos. I also do a lot of indoor training sessions and enrichment activities to help keep Dexter engaged. The bottom line is that I don’t want to risk Dexter’s health. And I can say from experience, it’s not a good feeling. Back in 2018, I’m pretty sure Dexter almost had a heat stroke! We were in Florida in the spring, doing touristy things. I thought I was being careful, bringing Dexter inside the stores, indoor attractions, and a covered train tour, but he really wasn’t doing well. He started showing signs of heatstroke. We rushed him to the hotel and cooled him down. I was lucky. And I’m not sure what I would have done if I wasn’t so lucky.
Hot Weather Tips for a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel

Grooming & Trimming: Regularly groom your Cavalier to remove loose fur and prevent overheating. I do give Dexter a puppy cut by trimming his belly, legs, and tail. I started this because of his CM/SM, but it also helps lighten his load and keeps him cooler.
Travel Comfort: Ensure your Cavalier’s comfort during travel with a well-ventilated crate or car harness, and schedule frequent breaks for water and shade. I also use a cooling mat and fan blowing on Dexter.
Sunscreen: Dog friendly sunscreen on your Cavalier’s nose helps protect him from harmful UV rays.
Cooling Products: Invest in cooling accessories like a cooling vest, bandana, or mat to provide relief from the heat during outdoor adventures.
Avoid the Hottest Part of the Day: Schedule outdoor activities during cooler times, such as early morning or late evening.
Mind the Pavement: Hot asphalt can burn your Cavalier’s paw pads. Stick to grassy or shaded areas for walks.
Hydration: Always have fresh water available, and encourage your Cavalier to drink frequently to stay hydrated. I put bone broth cubes in Dexter’s water bottle to encourage him to drink. If not, he will ignore the water.
Indoor Play or Outings: On exceptionally hot days, opt for indoor activities like interactive games or training sessions to keep your Cavalier entertained while staying cool.
Cooling Foods: Opt for cooling or neutral proteins in your Cavalier’s diet.

Remain vigilant, provide ample shade and hydration, and monitor your Cavalier for signs of overheating. Keep your Cavalier King Charles Spaniel’s well-being in mind, and use these practical tips to make sure you and your Cavalier have a safe and enjoyable summer.

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